A week ago one of my very close cousin asked me out. My cousin and I are like best friends, he acts like my brother. He's not really my cousin because he's not blood related to me because my grandma adopted his mom, but he doesn't know that. He's an amazing guy but in the end of the day he's my cousin. I didn't answer him with a no or yes, I just end the call (we were facetiming). It's been almost a week, what should I do?
Anonymous
Just tell him how you feel about it, you are just leaving him confused on what to do, he doesnt know if you want it or not. The truth is better then delaying something that scares the crap out of guys, and thats getting ignored.
I'm a freshmen and I've never been a in a relationship before. I've seen my friend or people around me in relationships and I'm jealous of their relationships. I want that special someone I would look forward to talk too, someone to cuddle with, just someone there for me. I don't know if I'm too ugly or I'm just not girlfriend material.
Anonymous
You have your whole highschool career to look forward to, dont know why you are worrying about relationships. Yeah you might see people happy in theirs but you shouldnt force it. Just be patient, dont be desperate. He will come eventually.
Just focus on yourself first, if you cant be independent and stable without someone by your side then to be honest I dont even think you are ready for one. You dont need, you want.
I'm having mix feels about this guy and I'm not sure what to do at this point.
Anonymous
If he makes you happy, you deserve him and he deserves you. As long as you are both happy youre on the green.
so this girl that i sometimes hangout with at lunch is always asking me " do you talk shit in your head?" im like no and just laugh just cause it wont seem awkward i guess. and she asked me that like every week from like december. maybe cause she sees all these post about quiet people having the loudest minds or something like that. i dont know, but just because im sometimes quiet doesnt mean i talk shit in my head about people. right? like what do i do when she ask me that again? i dont want pe
Anonymous
Lol, just tell her you dont! Tell her not all people talk shit in their head when they are quiet. And question why she assumes you do.
One day I was just walking to class and I notice that someone is following me. LOL. So when I saw one of my friends I would just stop and talk to her for a while, then I notice that he also stopped and he was pretending that he was on his phone. Then I kept on walk and I still saw him behind me so I went into the nearest girl's washroom, I was thinking that maybe he might get tried of following me. However...when I came outside I saw him standing across from me. HLEP!
Anonymous
LOL just confront him! Ask him why hes following you! Or just ask him may I help you?
I'm in a relationship with I guy I really care for but I have feelin for my best friend even thou she is a girl and so am I and she is also in a relationship with some one i consider my brother. me and her have been frineds since 7th grade but I feel like as much time I spend with her the more i want her for my self and never sharing, and when I try distancing my self I end up being pulled back into her. What the hell is worng with my life ?????
Anonymous
You are just confused, you are attracted to someone that is not the one you are in a relationship with yet is taken. If you have feelings for your current spouse, why leave him. Chances are if you do leave him for her, how do you know she will leave her relationship for you? I know you shouldnt live life with regrets but do that, and if things dont work out, you will feel like crap. Dont be a homewrecker!
My boyfriend and I, had a big fight on day before Valentines's day and he broke up with me on Valentine's day. I still have feeling for him, but I don't know what to do anymore.
Anonymous
If you have feelings for him, dont let him get away. Its just recent you guys broke up there is still a chance. Go after him! Dont let him get away. Tell him what you feel, chances are he still does have feelings for you obviously.
I feel horrible about myself. I feel like my existence doesn't matter anymore and I'm just living for no reasons! I have all these emotion bottle up inside and I don't know who to talk too. I don't know how to explain but sometimes I wish I never lived. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm so lost.
Anonymous
Lol, it does! Get it through your head, their are people that truly care for you! Even if they dont show it, itll affect them majorly if something happens to you. Youre just in the need for some recognition in your every day life. I feel you! We all need it to motivate us to get through our day. But sometimes you just have to man up and tell remind yourself, I am worth everything, I am beautiful. And I guarantee you 110% that is true. People will always love you from family to friends.
I really like this girl but I have no idea how to approach her. I think she's starting to think I'm a stalker....
Anonymous
Lol just dont do things to make it seem like that, just walking and staring at her will make her think in that direction. Man up and have some confidence, even if it is about school or a random topic, at least it starts the bond. Confidence is key when it comes to talking to girls.
Well I think I have feelings for my best friend. I know she's not interested in me at all and I'm stuck in the friend zone. I want her to feel the same way I do.
Anonymous
Just give her small signals, compliment her, talk to her in flirtatious ways. If time goes on and she starts to accept these actions then go in for the kill and tell her you want something more than friends. Just be patient with it, its a hard transition if you have been best friends for a while. But since you are best friends with her the relationship will be stronger, proven fact.
